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"Together, we help veterans, first responders, and their families rewrite the most painful stories of their lives—using horses, gratitude, and love. We're asking you to help us train them to become the healers they were meant to be."

Who here would like to Replace a clogged 'Story Filter with one full of Love, Joy, Peace, and Enlightenment?
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Here, we empower former military, police officers, firefighters, and paramedics to become Certified PerView Coaches—leaders of transformation who guide others toward healing, purpose, and a renewed sense of connection.

🌱 What Makes PerView Coaching Unique? Our online PERVIEW TRAINING MANUAL

PerView, Inc. Coaching Methodolgoy 7 Steps by
                    David Boje PhD and Grace Ann Rosile PhD

Please Download "Unhinging Time" PerView® Coaching Notebook PDF by David Boje, PhD & Grace Ann Rosile, PhD

PS: If you have any friends that you think could benefit from these coaching tools and resources, please send them here Contact David Boje

As offered through the lens of PER Processes of Embodied Restorying and VIEW Vibrations In Energy Waves, PERVIEW is Unique Method of Coaching that is Not Therapy.


1. Coaching vs. Therapy

Therapy looks back to heal trauma.                                                                                       Coaching looks forward to create possibility for you.

Therapy

PerView Coaching

Diagnoses dysfunction

Calls forth potential & Draws out wisdom from within you

Therapist is expert

Client is in the driver’s seat & We Trust your Unique Path

Past-focused

Present-aware and family co-creats their new Future together

Problem-oriented

Intention-centered & Invites your own Solutions through Awareness

Emotional healing

Energy transformation for Narrative transformation 

Often clinical

Asks questions so yu ignite Embodied Restorying Results

Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile are not licensed therapists. If you are in therapy, you will need a note from doctor. David and Grace Ann are coaches, business educators, and family facilitators of the processes of embodied restorying (PER) and co-founders of the Quantum Storytelling Conference to change your VIEW (Vibrations In Energy Waves) at an embodied level of transformation.  David and Grace Ann have their Ph.D.s in the fields of organizational storytelling, narrative methods, and they have training in equine-facilitated coaching work. They train both coaches and therapists in trauma-informed horsesense methods rooted in depth, ethics, and lived practice of inter-species communication.

At PerView, David and Grace Ann offer trauma-informed coaching — a healing-centered, non-clinical path that honors personal story, resilience, and practical change. They work with therapists, if and when they are needed. 

HorseSense Embodiment   Horses Helping Heroes Heal

PERVIEW Healing Visual Gallery

Stories of trauma recovery and transformation through horses, coaching, and restorying




🌱 Step

Name

Invitation Prompt

😊 1

Characterize

“Recall you at your best.”

😈 2

Externalize

“Make the problem itself a character in your story (e.g., Mr. Military, Devil Worry Wort).”

🤲 3

Sympathize

“List or tell about the benefits of this situation, past or present.”

🌩️ 4

Revise

“What are some disadvantages of the situation? When did you first experience them?”

✅ 5

Strategize

“Recall Little Wow Moments when you overcame or avoided these disadvantages.”

📖 6

Rehistoricize

“Restory and retell your history spotlighting the Wow Moments and leaving out the problems.”

🎤 7

Publicize

“Who can you tell who will help you become the best version of yourself?”








Your Next Mission: A PERVIEW Career in Healing 

At PerView, we train and certify those who have served to launch their own coaching businesses, helping fellow veterans and first responders break free from stuck stories—the ones filled with pain, shame, anger, and disconnection.

Are you ready to lead once more?

PerView.org offers a comprehensive two-year coaching certification program tailored for veterans and first responders, focusing on transforming them into Certified PerView Coaches. This program emphasizes guiding others through trauma and personal transformation, integrating equine-assisted coaching to enhance the healing process. perview.org

Certification Process Flowchart:
Get certiried to Startup your own Coaching Business

  1. Application Submission:

    • Interested veterans submit an application to enroll in the PerView Coaching Certification Program.

  2. Program Enrollment:

    • Upon acceptance, participants officially enroll in the two-year certification program.

  3. Comprehensive Training:

    • Engage in in-depth training modules covering coaching methodologies, trauma-informed practices, and business development skills necessary for establishing a coaching practice.

  4. Equine-Assisted Coaching Integration:

    • Participate in equine-assisted coaching sessions to experience and learn how to incorporate horse-assisted techniques into coaching practices.

  5. Personal Development:

    • Undergo personal healing and transformation exercises to ensure readiness to guide others effectively.

  6. Practical Experience:

    • Complete supervised coaching sessions to apply learned techniques in real-world scenarios.

  7. Certification Achievement:

    • After fulfilling all program requirements, receive the Certified PerView Coach designation.perview.org

  8. Business Launch Support:

    • Access resources and mentorship to establish and grow a personal coaching business.

Income Potential Projection:

Income as a Certified PerView Coach can vary based on factors such as experience, client base, and business model.According to industry insights, newer coaches fresh out of a certification program can expect to earn between $100 to $300 per coaching hour, while seasoned coaches may earn over $750 per session.  Assuming a modest start with 10 clients per week at $150 per session, an annual income could approximate $75,000. As experience and client base grow, this figure has the potential to increase significantly.Harvard Business Review

Note: These projections are estimates and actual income may vary based on individual effort, market demand, and other factors.

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THE PER in PERVIEW: PROCESSE
S for EMBODIED RESTORYING are 7 Steps that Will Change Your Life and if you like, con result in your Coaching Business



PER is Processes of Embodied Restorytelling 7-step Methodology developed by David Boje, PhD and Grace Ann Rosile, PhD over the last 25 years.

1. Characterize

Feel it. Name it. Let it have shape.”
Begin by identifying the felt sense of your experience. Tune into your body, your breath, your reactions. What’s arising? Give it a name, a texture, a shape. This is not about fixing—it’s about 
noticing. Let the story surface as sensation, image, or emotion.


2. Externalize

It’s not you, it’s a story you’re carrying.”
Create distance. Imagine placing the story in front of you rather than 
inside you. It’s not your identity—it’s a narrative, inherited or learned. This step invites compassion and opens the door for transformation by recognizing, “I am not my trauma—I am the storyteller now.”


3. Sympathize

Allow tenderness. Even toward the hardest parts.”
Offer empathy to yourself and even to the parts of the story that feel unbearable. Without sympathy, the story remains frozen. With it, we soften, grieve, and open space for integration. You don’t have to like the story—but you can feel with it, and through it.


4. Revise

Shift the lens. Choose a different path forward.”
Now that you’ve honored the old story, ask: 
What else could be true? How would the story shift if you were the hero, not the victim? Revision isn’t denial—it’s evolution. It’s taking back authorship with conscious intention.


5. Strategize

Put your new story into practice. Daily. Consciously.”
Live the new narrative. What actions align with this revision? What rituals, boundaries, or habits support your becoming? Strategies root the story into your nervous system, relationships, and routines. Practice is where the story grows.


6. Rehistoricize

Reweave the past in light of who you are now.”
Look back from the eyes of your current self. What meaning can be transformed? What once felt like a curse might now reveal itself as a calling. Rehistoricizing doesn’t change the facts—but it changes what the facts 
mean.


7. Publicize

Speak your truth. Let others witness your becoming.”
Restorying isn’t complete until it’s shared. Let others hear your transformation. Whether through art, voice, movement, or presence—publicizing affirms, “I’m here. I’ve changed. And I matter.” Witnessing makes the healing communal.




The VIEW in PERVIEW – Vibrations In Energy Waves

Change your View. Your Energy is Embodied Vibrations Waves. Your emotion embodiment refers to the experience and expression of your VIEW throughout yoru body.rAs you begin recognizing that emotions are not just mental states but also felt physically in Energy Waves that influence our physical sensations and behaviors, the Observe Effect of Quantum Physics becomes a path to health and well being.

Here's a more detailed explanation:

  

Comparison: Civilian vs. Military/Veteran Divorce Rates (U.S.)

Category Divorce Rate Notes
U.S. Civilians (1st marriage) 40–45% National average across all demographics
U.S. Civilians (2nd marriage) ~60% Higher risk with remarriages
Veterans (General) 48–60% Varies by service era and combat exposure
Post-9/11 Veterans Up to 60% Higher rates linked to deployments, PTSD, reintegration challenges
Active-Duty Military ~3% annually* Appears lower annually, but spikes after deployments
Female Veterans 50–70%+ Highest risk group; double the rate of civilian women in some studies
Combat Veterans with PTSD >60% PTSD strongly linked to marriage instability

*Note: The active-duty annual divorce rate (~3%) may seem low, but long-term cumulative divorce rates often rise significantly after separation from service.

💔 In Summary

Group Approx. Divorce Rate
U.S. Civilians (1st marriage) 40–45%
Veterans (general) 48–60%
Female Veterans 50–70%+
Post-9/11 Veterans Up to 60%

  • Female veterans are the most affected: their divorce rate is estimated to be 50–100% higher than female civilians.
  • Military families also show early divorce spikes—within the first 5 years of marriage, particularly around or after deployments.

  • PCL-5 Overview: 
The PCL-5 (PTSD Checklist for DSM-5) is a self-report measure used to assess PTSD symptoms based on the criteria outlined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition (DSM-5). 
 The PCL-5 consists of 20 items, each scored on a scale of 0 to 4, with a total score ranging from 0 to 80. 

    Step 1: Fill out the Self-Assessment Checklist and Add Up Your Total Score 0  to 80


    Step 2: Interpret Your Score

        * 31-33: Research suggests that a PCL-5 cutoff score between 31 and 33 can be used for a provisional PTSD diagnosis. 

        * 32 or above: Scores of 32 or above suggest the presence of clinically significant PTSD symptoms. 

        * Lower scores: Scores lower than 31-33 may indicate subthreshold symptoms of PTSD or that you do not meet the criteria for PTSD.
    Step 3: Contact David Boje Ph.D. to discuss results


    Why Horses? Why Now?

    PerView isn’t just about coaching. It’s about deep, embodied healing.

    Through our partnership with Horse Sense at Work, we integrate equine-assisted coaching, where the wisdom of horses helps break through barriers no words can touch. Horses teach presence, trust, and emotional honesty—essentials for healing and transformation.
    Download this Coaching Manual PDF for Free-->.

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    Next Please Study Review of Equine-Assisted Coaching in Conjunction with PerView Processes of Embodied Restorying.  CLICK HERE FOR  PDF of VIRTUES OF PERVIEW COACHING QUESTIONS 

    🐎 Healing PTSD with Horses


    Founded by David Boje, a Vietnam veteran who transformed his own journey through PTSD, cancer, and personal struggles into a mission of healing and empowerment. Together with Grace Ann Rosile, they integrate equine-assisted therapy into the PerView Coaching Method, offering a unique and effective approach to personal transformation. 

    Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile are not licensed therapists. They are coaches, educators, and facilitators of embodied restorying. With Ph.D.s and decades of experience in organizational storytelling, narrative methods, and equine-facilitated work, they train both coaches and therapists in trauma-informed methods rooted in depth, ethics, and lived practice.

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    Ideas for  you in the PERVIEW Movement

    1. "We don’t heal by reliving the nightmare. We heal by rewriting the story."

    2. "A horse doesn’t judge your past—it mirrors your presence."

    3. "In trauma’s silence, even a gentle touch can become a revolution."

    4. "Our scars are not the end of the story—they're the beginning of the restorying."

    5. "Trauma doesn’t need to be confronted with force. It responds to presence."

    6. "Every donation is a ripple that can calm a warrior’s storm."

    7. "You can’t BS a horse. You have to show up real, or not at all."

    8. "Healing doesn’t always speak in words—sometimes, it hums through a heartbeat beside a horse."

    9. "We’re not fixing broken people. We’re inviting their true selves to return."

    10. "This is not therapy. This is a homecoming."


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    Here, we empower former military, police officers, firefighters, and paramedics to become certified PerView Coaches—leaders of transformation who guide others toward healing, purpose, and a renewed sense of connection.

     


    Why PERVIEW is a Movement?

    Every day, veterans, first responders, and their families face the hidden wounds of trauma. Traditional therapy often forces individuals to relive their worst experiences—sometimes making the trauma worse, not better.

    For decades, trauma treatments have centered on RED (Repeated Exposure Therapy)—reliving the past over and over in hopes that the mind will dull its pain is not the best approach. It doesn’t work for everyone.Our alternative is PER-VIEW. It offers a different approach: one rooted in storytelling, quantum resonance, and embodied healing. Instead of forcing people to revisit their worst moments, we invite them to create new narratives—ones infused with safety, resilience, and connection.

    That’s why Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile created PERVIEW—a groundbreaking, gentle-touch coaching method based on storytelling, vibrational energy, and somatic healing. With equine-assisted therapy, embodied restorying, and VIEW (Vibrations In Energy Waves), we are helping people reclaim their lives without reliving the past emotional trauma again and again.

    Now, we need your help to bring this trauma-healing movement to the people who need it most.



     🧒👨‍✈️ A veteran and child in quiet sand tray connection

    Silent Meditation about Sandtray and working with Horses





    🚒🐎 An army veteran and wise horse in silent, sacred presence




    🚒🐎 A firefighter and wise horse in silent, sacred presence



     🌳🌀 A gentle coaching session, Wife and Husband, reconnecting beneath the open sky




    🌳🌀 A gentle Perview coaching session with veterans, family members, and horses beneath the open sky


    Each image is a doorway, a ripple, a new breath in the PERVIEW movement.







    A Veteran’s Truth

    I see you.

    I know the weight you carry, the ghosts that wake you at 2 a.m., the way anger feels safer than sadness, the way numbness becomes your shield. I know, because I carried it too.

    My name is David Boje. I’m not just another coach trying to sell you something—I’m a Vietnam veteran who’s been where you are. I walked through the fire, the anger, the burnout, the divorce, the loneliness. I fought battles overseas, and I fought battles inside myself.

    But here’s what I can tell you—there is a way out. There is a way through. And it starts with restorying your life.



    Shufutinsky’s Dissertation: Insights into Post-Military Corporate Integration

    Anton Shufutinsky’s 2019 doctoral dissertation employs a triangulated qualitative methodology to explore the lived experiences of wounded warriors transitioning into corporate roles. The study utilizes narrative inquiry, transcendental phenomenology, and constructivist grounded theory to uncover the challenges these veterans face, such as:ResearchGate

    Shufutinsky emphasizes the importance of organizational support and understanding in facilitating successful transitions for wounded warriors.


    Intersection and Complementarity

    Both PERVIEW-like programs and Shufutinsky’s research underscore the necessity of comprehensive support systems for veterans:

    Together, these perspectives advocate for a continuum of care that spans from securing basic needs to fostering inclusive workplace environments.


    Implications for Practice

    Integrating the insights from both PERVIEW-like programs and Shufutinsky’s research can inform the development of comprehensive support strategies, including:

    By bridging the gap between immediate support services and long-term integration strategies, stakeholders can better facilitate the successful transition of veterans into civilian life and employment.

    Shufutinsky, Anton. (2019). From salutes to staff meetings: A triangulated qualitative inquiry study of the experiences of wounded warriors in post-military corporate positions (Doctoral dissertation, Cabrini University). https://www.proquest.com/openview/eb71cd701dc7143ce3bc864519e15831/1?cbl=18750&diss=y&pq-origsite=gscholar


    Shufutinsky, A., Beach, A. A., & Saraceno, A. (2020). OD for robots? Implications of Industry 4.0 on talent acquisition and development. Organization Development Journal, 38(3), 59-76. Research Gate document


    The Descent: The War That Never Ends

    I was just a kid when I went to Vietnam, thrown into a war that changed me before I even understood who I was. Out there, survival was all that mattered. You don’t think, you don’t feel—you just act. You shove it all down because feeling might get you killed.

    But when I came home, the war came with me.

    PTSD. The rage. The sleepless nights. The way a sound could send me right back into the jungle. I was stuck in a story I couldn’t escape—one of survival, conflict, and isolation.

    Then came Agent Orange. The slow poison that seeped into my body, giving me cancer years later. The anger grew. I felt betrayed by the very country I fought for. I lashed out. My marriage fell apart.

    I was lost.

    Burnt out. Alone.

    I didn’t think there was a way back.  David Boje.


    Read David Boje's story of Coming Back from Agent Orange and Founding Perview.


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    Healing Trauma: Horses, Stories, and Veteran Transformation

    David Boje's narrative details his personal struggles with trauma from the Vietnam War, Agent Orange exposure, and subsequent life challenges like bankruptcy and divorce. He recounts his journey towards healing and the development of a unique therapeutic approach utilizing horses and sand trays to help veterans, first responders, and their families overcome their own traumatic experiences. Boje emphasizes the limitations of traditional PTSD treatments like Repeated Exposure Desensitization and advocates for his experiential, love-based method that encourages self-acceptance and rewriting painful stories. Ultimately, he seeks financial support to expand his training program and certify others in his innovative healing techniques



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    Not every veteran or first responder has the financial means to access this life-changing training. Your donation can provide scholarships for those in need and ensure the well-being of the therapy horses who make this healing possible.

    Fuel the Movement of Healing & Transformation

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    For Veterans & First Responders: Ready to make an impact? Start your journey as a PerView Coach. For Donors: Ready to give? Your support changes lives. For Everyone: Share this mission and be part of the healing. Our Goal: To Certify and Train a Veteran and a First Responder to start their own coaching business in every community across the nation, to bring healing to millions. 

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