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"Together, we help veterans, first responders, and their families rewrite the most painful stories of their lives—using horses, gratitude, and love. We're asking you to help us train them to become the healers they were meant to be."
Who here would like to Replace a clogged 'Story Filter with one full of Love, Joy, Peace, and Enlightenment?
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Here, we empower former military, police officers,
firefighters, and paramedics to become Certified PerView
Coaches—leaders of transformation who guide others toward
healing, purpose, and a renewed sense of connection.
🌱 What Makes PerView
Coaching Unique? Our online PERVIEW TRAINING MANUAL
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Coaching Notebook PDF by David
Boje, PhD & Grace Ann Rosile, PhD
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As offered through the lens of PER Processes of Embodied Restorying and VIEW Vibrations In Energy Waves, PERVIEW is Unique Method of Coaching that is Not Therapy.
1. Coaching vs. Therapy
Therapy looks back to heal trauma. Coaching looks forward to create possibility for you.
Therapy |
PerView Coaching |
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Diagnoses dysfunction |
Calls forth potential & Draws out wisdom from within you |
Therapist is expert |
Client is in the driver’s seat & We Trust your Unique Path |
Past-focused |
Present-aware and family co-creats their new Future together |
Problem-oriented |
Intention-centered & Invites your own Solutions through Awareness |
Emotional healing |
Energy transformation for Narrative transformation |
Often clinical |
Asks questions so yu ignite Embodied Restorying Results |
Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile are not licensed therapists. If you are in therapy, you will need a note from doctor. David and Grace Ann are coaches, business educators, and family facilitators of the processes of embodied restorying (PER) and co-founders of the Quantum Storytelling Conference to change your VIEW (Vibrations In Energy Waves) at an embodied level of transformation. David and Grace Ann have their Ph.D.s in the fields of organizational storytelling, narrative methods, and they have training in equine-facilitated coaching work. They train both coaches and therapists in trauma-informed horsesense methods rooted in depth, ethics, and lived practice of inter-species communication.
At PerView,
David and Grace Ann offer trauma-informed
coaching —
a healing-centered, non-clinical path that honors personal
story, resilience, and practical change. They work with
therapists, if and when they are needed.
PER is Processes
of Embodied Restorytelling 7-step Methodology developed by
David Boje, PhD and Grace Ann Rosile, PhD over the last 25
years.
1. Characterize
“Feel it. Name
it. Let it have shape.”
Begin by identifying the felt sense of your
experience. Tune into your body, your breath,
your reactions. What’s arising? Give it a
name, a texture, a shape. This is not about
fixing—it’s about noticing. Let the story
surface as sensation, image, or emotion.
2. Externalize
“It’s not you,
it’s a story you’re carrying.”
Create distance. Imagine placing the story in
front of you rather than inside you. It’s
not your identity—it’s a narrative, inherited
or learned. This step invites compassion and
opens the door for transformation by
recognizing, “I am not my trauma—I am the
storyteller now.”
3. Sympathize
“Allow
tenderness. Even toward the hardest parts.”
Offer empathy to yourself and even to the
parts of the story that feel unbearable.
Without sympathy, the story remains frozen.
With it, we soften, grieve, and open space for
integration. You don’t have to like the
story—but you can feel with it, and through
it.
4. Revise
“Shift the lens.
Choose a different path forward.”
Now that you’ve honored the old story,
ask: What else could
be true? How would
the story shift if you were the hero, not the
victim? Revision isn’t denial—it’s evolution.
It’s taking back authorship with conscious
intention.
5. Strategize
“Put your new
story into practice. Daily. Consciously.”
Live the new narrative. What actions align
with this revision? What rituals, boundaries,
or habits support your becoming? Strategies
root the story into your nervous system,
relationships, and routines. Practice is where
the story grows.
6. Rehistoricize
“Reweave the
past in light of who you are now.”
Look back from the eyes of your current self.
What meaning can be transformed? What once
felt like a curse might now reveal itself as a
calling. Rehistoricizing doesn’t change the
facts—but it changes what the facts mean.
7. Publicize
“Speak your
truth. Let others witness your becoming.”
Restorying isn’t complete until it’s shared.
Let others hear your transformation. Whether
through art, voice, movement, or
presence—publicizing affirms, “I’m here. I’ve
changed. And I matter.” Witnessing makes the
healing communal.
The VIEW in PERVIEW – Vibrations In Energy Waves
Change your View. Your Energy is Embodied Vibrations Waves. Your emotion embodiment refers to the experience and expression of your VIEW throughout yoru body.rAs you begin recognizing that emotions are not just mental states but also felt physically in Energy Waves that influence our physical sensations and behaviors, the Observe Effect of Quantum Physics becomes a path to health and well being.
Here's a more detailed explanation:
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Physical Manifestation:
Emotions are not solely mental; they have a physical presence in the body as your VIEW, Vibrations In Energy Waves that are influencing everything from heart rate and breathing to posture and muscle tension.
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Understanding Emotions Through the Body at a Cellular Level:
Your body is 37.2 trillion living cells. To VIEW your cellular living Embodiment emphasizes the importance of paying attention to the physical sensations associated with emotions, allowing for a deeper understanding of our emotional experiences at a quantum level.
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Emotional Energy Regulation:
By becoming more aware of the body's living cellular response to emotions, we can develop better strategies for managing and regulating our emotional experiences by applying the 7 Embodied Restorying Steps developed by David Boje and Grace Ann Rosile.
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PERVIEW is the Connection of your Ture Self to Others:
PERVIEW coaching in Awareness of Energy Emotional Embodiment fosters a deeper connection to one’s true authentic self and others. As we become more energetically attuned to our own emotions and the emotions of those around us, that embodiment awakens our spirit.
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Examples:
For instance, sadness might feel like a heaviness in the chest, while anger can manifest as a tightening in the muscles or a rise in heart rate. By feeling into the old memories and noticing how their body reacts, individuals can begin to reframe those stories with the wisdom of the present body. This brings healing across generations—through muscle memory and cellular shifts.
Comparison: Civilian vs. Military/Veteran Divorce Rates (U.S.)
Category | Divorce Rate | Notes |
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U.S. Civilians (1st marriage) | 40–45% | National average across all demographics |
U.S. Civilians (2nd marriage) | ~60% | Higher risk with remarriages |
Veterans (General) | 48–60% | Varies by service era and combat exposure |
Post-9/11 Veterans | Up to 60% | Higher rates linked to deployments, PTSD, reintegration challenges |
Active-Duty Military | ~3% annually* | Appears lower annually, but spikes after deployments |
Female Veterans | 50–70%+ | Highest risk group; double the rate of civilian women in some studies |
Combat Veterans with PTSD | >60% | PTSD strongly linked to marriage instability |
*Note: The active-duty annual divorce rate (~3%) may seem low, but long-term cumulative divorce rates often rise significantly after separation from service.
💔 In Summary
Group | Approx. Divorce Rate |
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U.S. Civilians (1st marriage) | 40–45% |
Veterans (general) | 48–60% |
Female Veterans | 50–70%+ |
Post-9/11 Veterans | Up to 60% |
PCL-5 Overview: The PCL-5 (PTSD Checklist for DSM-5) is a self-report measure used to assess PTSD symptoms based on the criteria outlined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition (DSM-5). The PCL-5 consists of 20 items, each scored on a scale of 0 to 4, with a total score ranging from 0 to 80.
Step 1: Fill out the Self-Assessment Checklist and Add Up Your Total Score 0 to 80
Step 2: Interpret Your Score
* 31-33: Research suggests that a PCL-5 cutoff score between 31 and 33 can be used for a provisional PTSD diagnosis.* 32 or above: Scores of 32 or above suggest the presence of clinically significant PTSD symptoms.
* Lower scores: Scores lower than 31-33 may indicate subthreshold symptoms of PTSD or that you do not meet the criteria for PTSD.
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Why Horses? Why Now?
PerView isn’t just about coaching. It’s about deep, embodied healing.
Through our partnership with
Horse Sense at Work, we integrate equine-assisted coaching,
where the wisdom of horses helps break through barriers no
words can touch. Horses teach presence, trust, and emotional
honesty—essentials for healing and transformation.
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🐎 Healing PTSD with Horses
Founded by David
Boje, a Vietnam veteran who transformed his own
journey through PTSD, cancer, and personal struggles into a
mission of healing and empowerment. Together with Grace
Ann Rosile, they integrate equine-assisted therapy
into the PerView Coaching Method, offering a unique and
effective approach to personal transformation.
Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile are not licensed therapists. They are coaches, educators, and facilitators of embodied restorying. With Ph.D.s and decades of experience in organizational storytelling, narrative methods, and equine-facilitated work, they train both coaches and therapists in trauma-informed methods rooted in depth, ethics, and lived practice.
Ideas for you in the PERVIEW Movement
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"We don’t heal by reliving the nightmare. We heal by rewriting the story."
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"A horse doesn’t judge your past—it mirrors your presence."
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"In trauma’s silence, even a gentle touch can become a revolution."
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"Our scars are not the end of the story—they're the beginning of the restorying."
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"Trauma doesn’t need to be confronted with force. It responds to presence."
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"Every donation is a ripple that can calm a warrior’s storm."
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"You can’t BS a horse. You have to show up real, or not at all."
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"Healing doesn’t always speak in words—sometimes, it hums through a heartbeat beside a horse."
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"We’re not fixing broken people. We’re inviting their true selves to return."
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"This is not therapy. This is a homecoming."
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Here,
we empower former military, police officers, firefighters, and
paramedics to become certified PerView Coaches—leaders of
transformation who guide others toward healing, purpose, and a
renewed sense of connection.
Why PERVIEW is a Movement?
Every day, veterans, first
responders, and their families face the hidden wounds of
trauma. Traditional
therapy often forces individuals to relive their worst
experiences—sometimes making the
trauma worse, not better.
For decades, trauma treatments have centered on RED (Repeated Exposure Therapy)—reliving the past over and over in hopes that the mind will dull its pain is not the best approach. It doesn’t work for everyone.Our alternative is PER-VIEW. It offers a different approach: one rooted in storytelling, quantum resonance, and embodied healing. Instead of forcing people to revisit their worst moments, we invite them to create new narratives—ones infused with safety, resilience, and connection.
That’s why Dr. David Boje and Dr. Grace Ann Rosile created PERVIEW—a groundbreaking, gentle-touch coaching method based on storytelling, vibrational energy, and somatic healing. With equine-assisted therapy, embodied restorying, and VIEW (Vibrations In Energy Waves), we are helping people reclaim their lives without reliving the past emotional trauma again and again.
Now, we need your help to bring
this trauma-healing movement to the
people who need it most.

🧒👨✈️ A veteran and child in quiet sand tray connection

Silent Meditation about Sandtray and working with Horses

🚒🐎 An army veteran and wise horse in silent, sacred presence

🚒🐎 A firefighter and wise horse in silent, sacred presence

🌳🌀 A gentle coaching session, Wife and Husband, reconnecting beneath the open sky

🌳🌀 A gentle Perview coaching session with veterans, family members, and horses beneath the open sky
Each image is a doorway, a ripple, a new breath in the PERVIEW movement.
A Veteran’s Truth
I see you.
I know the weight you carry, the ghosts that wake you at 2 a.m., the way anger feels safer than sadness, the way numbness becomes your shield. I know, because I carried it too.
My name is David Boje. I’m not just another coach trying to sell you something—I’m a Vietnam veteran who’s been where you are. I walked through the fire, the anger, the burnout, the divorce, the loneliness. I fought battles overseas, and I fought battles inside myself.
But here’s what I can tell you—there is a
way out. There is a way through. And it starts
with restorying your life.
Shufutinsky’s Dissertation: Insights into Post-Military Corporate Integration
Anton Shufutinsky’s 2019 doctoral dissertation employs a triangulated qualitative methodology to explore the lived experiences of wounded warriors transitioning into corporate roles. The study utilizes narrative inquiry, transcendental phenomenology, and constructivist grounded theory to uncover the challenges these veterans face, such as:ResearchGate
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Navigating identity shifts from military to civilian roles.
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Encountering workplace cultures that may not fully understand military experiences.
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Dealing with physical and psychological injuries while adapting to new professional environments .
Shufutinsky emphasizes the importance of organizational support and understanding in facilitating successful transitions for wounded warriors.
Intersection and Complementarity
Both PERVIEW-like programs and Shufutinsky’s research underscore the necessity of comprehensive support systems for veterans:
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Holistic Transition Support: PERVIEW addresses immediate needs such as housing and financial stability, which are foundational for veterans as they adjust to civilian life.
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Workplace Integration: Shufutinsky’s findings highlight the need for organizational awareness and adaptability to accommodate the unique experiences of veterans, particularly those with service-related injuries.
Together, these perspectives advocate for a continuum of care that spans from securing basic needs to fostering inclusive workplace environments.
Implications for Practice
Integrating the insights from both PERVIEW-like programs and Shufutinsky’s research can inform the development of comprehensive support strategies, including:
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Enhanced Case Management: Incorporating employment counseling and workplace readiness into veteran support services.
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Organizational Training: Educating employers on the value of veterans' experiences and how to create supportive work environments.
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Policy Development: Advocating for policies that address both the immediate and long-term needs of transitioning veterans.
By bridging the gap between immediate support services and long-term integration strategies, stakeholders can better facilitate the successful transition of veterans into civilian life and employment.
Shufutinsky, Anton. (2019). From salutes to
staff meetings: A triangulated qualitative inquiry
study of the experiences of wounded warriors in
post-military corporate positions (Doctoral
dissertation, Cabrini University). https://www.proquest.com/openview/eb71cd701dc7143ce3bc864519e15831/1?cbl=18750&diss=y&pq-origsite=gscholar
Shufutinsky, A., Beach, A. A., &
Saraceno, A. (2020). OD for robots? Implications
of Industry 4.0 on talent acquisition and
development. Organization Development Journal, 38(3), 59-76. Research
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The Descent: The War That Never Ends
I was just a kid when I went to Vietnam, thrown into a war that changed me before I even understood who I was. Out there, survival was all that mattered. You don’t think, you don’t feel—you just act. You shove it all down because feeling might get you killed.
But when I came home, the war came with me.
PTSD. The rage. The sleepless nights. The way a sound could send me right back into the jungle. I was stuck in a story I couldn’t escape—one of survival, conflict, and isolation.
Then came Agent Orange. The slow poison that seeped into my body, giving me cancer years later. The anger grew. I felt betrayed by the very country I fought for. I lashed out. My marriage fell apart.
I was lost.
Burnt out. Alone.
I didn’t think there was a way back. David Boje.
Read David Boje's story of Coming Back from Agent Orange and Founding Perview.

Healing Trauma: Horses, Stories, and Veteran Transformation
David Boje's narrative details his personal struggles with trauma from the Vietnam War, Agent Orange exposure, and subsequent life challenges like bankruptcy and divorce. He recounts his journey towards healing and the development of a unique therapeutic approach utilizing horses and sand trays to help veterans, first responders, and their families overcome their own traumatic experiences. Boje emphasizes the limitations of traditional PTSD treatments like Repeated Exposure Desensitization and advocates for his experiential, love-based method that encourages self-acceptance and rewriting painful stories. Ultimately, he seeks financial support to expand his training program and certify others in his innovative healing techniques
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Not every veteran or first responder has the financial means to access this life-changing training. Your donation can provide scholarships for those in need and ensure the well-being of the therapy horses who make this healing possible.
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